Treastise on Men+Women- Part Deux

Mmmmmmm ..well after the mixed reactions to the famous/infamous "Teddy Bear Theory" i thought id put the second part of my treatise on men +women relationships into words.Actually floyd was playing a few mintues back in the background but then to get the feel i switched back to my song of the season "aye udi udi ". There is something in that song and video that manages to create a strange indescribably good feeling...

Actually the following is list of situations that evoke in me feelings and moods that cannot be put into words....

a.the smell that fills the air when the first drops of rain hit the ground.
b. sitting in the balcony on a cold sunday rainy sunday morning sipping coffee and reading the paper as well looking at the rain
c.the tingly feel one gets when we sneeze when not having a cold.


I'll actually relate the story of how a typical teen love story will go that will in itelf explain my second "feature" :-)

Act I:

Boy sees girl....first time ...cud be anywhere ..canteen...bus stop.Overactive heart and hormones(the latter can b desribed as PPS.. post puberty syndrome).Naturally progresses to make the next biggest mistake.. tell his friend abt the girl. This sets off as a Mega Death song goes a "train of consequences". Boy sees girl again and again. Boy tends to like the girl 4 absolutely weird reasons.. one of my friends said" i liked her initially coz she was the only silent and docile babe in the bus(read that as , the girl who sits in a corner and laughs silently when she hears a joke,talks at the most to one other girl always)

Act II:

Boy, after much deliberation talks to girl and after a few meetings decides "bahut ho gaya" and submit what is known in government parlance as MoI or Memo"random" of Interest.For the girl this comes as a breath of fresh air(read some sorta activity in a otherwise non happening life).MoI accepted , boy graduates to become a boy friend.

Act III:

Thus begin the numerous meetings , dates , almonds and what not.. no coffee pub or eatery is spared all the lonely roads are traversed , all the while escaping the eagle eyes of onlookers....Meeting and talking endless hours on the phone becomes "de riguer".They have to meet and discuss everything under the sun, like how he hurt his gum while doing danth manjan , to her burning her tongue while sipping hot tea (without hearing her mother 's "garam hai").The guy goes to meet the girl daily like he reports to work.

Act IV:

Time flies they say and so the couple have to dcide their future, the girl cant go against her parents and the boy doesnt have the balls to go ahead and ask her parents coz hez worried the girl might doa volte face. Girl marries another guy.Boy feels angry frustrated and in some cases like my sensitive(euphemism 4 senti) friend has trouble coping up, but then life goes on.
Some times boy and girl get married and they r seemingly happy. but spare a thought ,over a period of time we tend to develop affection and concern even for the person sitting next to us in class though we r as different as chalk and cheese(gaurav dont laugh)...

What i described above is what i feel happens among average indian teenagers cutting across most income and social groups so kindly dont judge it by thinkin that u wudnt have done it. iIhave tried to b funny and it is 4 an observer like me and i have seen quite a few of these happenning. in many like my friend's the guy isnt even sure at the end why he fell 4 the girl as in what quality it was . Somehow im not the beleiver in mani ratnam style "head over heels in love at first sight".

It takes at least some at least some time click or like someone.........but then dont wait till u know the girl inside out coz ull end up missing the bus ........like.........someone else i know ...